Sunday, 27 January 2019

MARD - Jinhe Dard Hota Hai

How do I start, what do I tell and where do I start?!

"Men Cry Too", probably the funniest and most uncommon situation you have ever come across or you will ever come across. Because we as a society have decided that men do not cry, because the so called F***Ked up clauses of society`s constitution say we men can not cry.

Men are meant be macho, muscular, handsome, daring and dashing and always on the receiving side of any problem.

Men cry too, because he can express how it feels to be broken. There are tears he can not hide, even though he tries to push them away.

 Since childhood we have been told,

1. Men do not cry.
2. Girls do not like guys who cry.
3. You are not a girl, you can not cry.
4. Be a man, do not cry and many more to be counted.

Everyone has a saturation point, after which we can not hold on to anything. We loose ourselves. We tend to become pieces of broken glass which can never be fixed.













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When we are born our first emotion is crying. When we are growing up we cry to make sure our mother`s around. When we are going to school we cry because of punishments.
When we grow up, we cry because of heartbreaks, loneliness and what not name it all.

You may not care to ask a man why is he silent, but trust me he knows how hard it is to hide his feelings and not to let those tears roll over his cheeks.

We fight the darkness, we fight the loneliness, we fight the chauvinism and goddamn we fight everything.
Not showing up the emotions is role assigned to men by the society.

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We have never asked for this favor upon us. It is indeed a curse asking us not let our emotions out.

Just because long back a gentleman said "Mard ko Drad nahi hota" (refering to a bollywood movie dialogue) you do not have to take it literal.

The federation of so called liberals of society has decided that the other gender is allowed to convey openly their feelings and the man has no right to do so.

A man crying is considered to be weak, lost, characterless, afraid, scared and coward.

Your first emotion is crying and when you die, last emotion of your loved ones is crying. So why not allow men to cry?!

We are afraid of chauvinism, we are scared of stereotypical thinking about us, we are not hard inside, we are the same in and out like any of you shout.

What have you done to a man as a society in terms of his feelings?

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A man should be allowed to confess his emotions, narrate his stories, express his sadness and let out his loneliness.
A man must be allowed to be like what everyone else is in terms of emotions.
A man is no different in emotions in any manner from you all.

Just try to gulp it into your intoxicated brains and pigeonhole thoughts that "Mard Ko Bhi Dard Hota Hai"...

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